one of the other. You then say, "Only this … Falling into category two means you might want to read the following preventative measures and see if … Admittedly, she's my first girlfriend but I'm not her first boyfriend. you're nuts. If your child has other sisters, brothers, half sisters, half brothers, or children of their own, you can also include them on your health insurance plan. Tagged as: Breaking up, Long distance << Previous question Next question >> Question - (25 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2008) A ... she has been too dependent on me and she does not like that. I'm also not her first (sexually), but she's my first. Relationship to You: For a child to qualify as your dependent, he or she needs to be your biological child, your stepchild, your adopted child, or a foster child you are taking care of. A lot of this stemmed from my gf being home schooled by her mom. "My girlfriend bought me an expensive pair of shoes, which I wore religiously," says Drew, 28. If your dependent is 17 or 18 (or a full-time student through age 24) they do not qualify for the $500 stimulus payment. If you fall into category one, outstanding, you have no issues and are a stable girlfriend. No. Trust me, I dont spoil her with material things, but I do feed her very often. This prevents many high school juniors and seniors from receiving any stimulus money. My girlfriend is overly attached to her parents. But she doesnt want to work because of a stressful schedule, and college. My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we're both 17. I actually respect the fact that she is close to them, but sometimes closeness can turn into an unhealthy dependence. Stop Enabling Your Overly Dependent Adult Child ... You start to explain that you have financial pressures too and he immediately says, "Fine, don't worry about me!" The tax code defines a child as “not attained age 17.” However there is a problem. Does she solve her problems, or are they the same shit every time? Her last real boyfriend (who she was with for nearly 2 years) was a complete asshole to her and she had trust issues because of him. July 11, ... it's outside the range of what I would consider acceptable and sounds overly dependent to me. It indicates she’s not able or willing to form close relationships. Does she have friends? Is my girlfriend too needy, or is this normal for some people? My girlfriend and I are both 15, and we've been dating for 9 months. She's super dependent on me and at times she seems clingy. Category #3 OMG there is something seriously wrong with me, I need help now!! My girlfriend feels like she is too dependent or doesn't want to be dependent on me. "One day she noticed I wasn't wearing them and started tripping that I … I have to text her all day and respond quickly or she's upset. This doesn’t bode well for your relationship either. 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